Don’t push your friend
Now when you make a move at a friend, you obviously know you’re taking a chance. And as with every other bet, there is a good chance that you may even lose. At times, your friend may just not be willing to look at you as anything more than just a friend. Unfortunately, you have to accept their decision. On the other hand, your friend may just burst out laughing or may even freak out. Give them time to make up their mind. They too may have feelings for you, but probably have never thought about it. So wait. It may take a while before they could give you any sort of an affirmation.
The fork in the path
Ouch… this is probably the hardest part of confessing your love. If it goes well for you, you may be the happiest person, but if it goes otherwise, then your friendship is definitely in for a new fork in the road. You may be separated and there may be certain awkwardness in your relationship (which can be healed back to normal with time) or you may even feel too embarrassed to face each other again, which means the end of the road for your relationship.
So what really happens next?
What happens next is entirely left how either of you feel about each other. It may turn out good or it may take a worse turn. I’ve been in these heart pounding moments too. And guess what? I still haven’t really hooked up with any of my friends. Somehow it just didn’t feel right after that incident with my best friend years ago. But, on the other hand, if I ever did come across that perfect friend who can blow me off my feet after I’ve weighed him with the pros and cons, I’d jump right into his arm even before he completes his proclamation of love. There’s no question about that. Admit it, when one of you starts looking at the other as something more than just a friend, the relationship has changed already, hasn’t it? It’s that stage when you can’t change it, nor can you get over it. So all I can say is, irrespective of whether it works out or not, try holding on and be there for each other. What’s the difference between lovers and best friends anyways? Just the fact you get to pull down your mate’s pants in the former
On the other hand, when you’re pals, you don’t really have to bother with the damn pants, you can still pull their leg!
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