The move from friends to lovers
Going out with a friend is something that needs a lot of thought. And if your friendship does mean a lot to you, think a while before making a move on a friend. Never forget that a relationship with a friend would never be the same if you ever split up someday. In most cases, friendships always have a way of twisting itself towards love, so if you want to make a move, do so with your own neck on the line.
Figure the feelings
Ask yourself one last time, are the feelings you have for your friend truly love, is it purely lust, or is it because of an emotional upheaval in your life? Sometimes, you could misinterpret your feelings when you feel more attracted to them all of a sudden, or feel jealous when they start going out with someone else. Be true to yourself about the origin of your feelings. You really wouldn’t want to propose only to find out in a couple of weeks that you really weren’t in love, and it was just an infatuation.
Speak your heart
Hey, it’s your friend we’re talking about right? So just speak your heart out and let them know exactly what you feel. Never go straight in and tell them about how perfect your life could be if the both of you could see each other. Do it as cautiously as possible. Take a few days or even weeks to express yourself, because rushing into it would only make the blow unexpected and harder to face, fir your mate. I mean, come on, it’s not everyday that they come across a best friend who has a crush on them, right? But on that final day when you feel your mate’s warmed up to hearing the words from the horse’s mouth, open your moth and neigh
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