Why Do We Shout In Anger?

Why Do We Shout In Anger?

A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'
'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

MORAL:

When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.

To My Dearest Mom... Happy Birthday

You are the one who dressed me up, for my first day at school When I sobbed, yelled and screamed at you, you didn't say a word And instead, took me to the stop and finally with great difficulties When I some how sealed on a seat, you experienced eternal bliss in your heart When the bus began to move, I looked back at your diminishing figure through window Today when I' hve grown up to face the world, I have realised why I did so, do you know why? Because you were the one, who meant all-in-one Gurukul,hostel and school for me You were always there when nobody was around you never gave me a handkerchief, when I sobbed like a leaking tap Instead you sat beside me till my moist eyes dried and all the pain was gone Then you looked into the broken and depressed me And said Realise your deeds, before you express what you feel That's why today I'have grown upto, look at myself before pointing out at some one. You were always by my side, when I was wrong To lead me the path, on which I am, supposed to finally walk you read for me fairy tales and strories that thought me things till I became capable enough to pick one from bookshelf You bandaged me when I hurt, you nursed me when I was sick. But you asked me to face it when I was hit. You made me strong when I thought I was weak As I grew up, you never considdred referring to anything to learn of the changes I went through You were always aware of my secrets untold and all the thoughts of my mind If you still don't know who you are? Ask the priest and he will tell you, you are God Ask an orphan on the street and he will tell you you are his need Ask a daughter or a son and they will tell you You are mom Yes, the best teacher and love on the earth.

Oh my GOd.. I dont like this world..

Ohh my GOd.. I dont like this world..



Why do people have to be so cruel?
Why can't we just get along?
Why can't we be generous and kind?
Why can't we flow like a song?

We never agree about fights an endless battle.
Even against our brother.

Sticks and stones may break my bones.
Words will never hurt.
This statement feels so untrue.
When your treated like dirt.

For many cruelty is natural.
It passes like a trend.
You never stop to think about.
The messages you send.

People try to fit in.
Every single day.
Hoping low.

God made everyone in a unique special way.
Many aren't persuaded.
Only because you proved them wrong.
And made their hearts deflated.

Every day is an obstacle for most.
Though so simple it may seem.
As you dodge insult after insult.
Dodging everything mean.

Don't judge a book by it's appearance.
Take a look inside.
There are so many things in this story.
I promise you will find.

Look to the horizon, spread your wings, and fly...

Look to the horizon, spread your wings, and fly...

The nest of young eagles hung on every word as the Master Eagle described his exploits.
This was an important day for the eaglets.
They were preparing for their first solo flight

"How far can I travel?" asked one of the eaglets.
"How far can you see?" responded the Master Eagle.
"How high can I fly?" quizzed the young eaglet.
"How far can you stretch your wings?" asked the old eagle.
"How long can I fly?" the eaglet persisted.
"How far is the horizon?" the mentor rebounded.
"How much I dream?" asked the eaglet.
"How much can you dream?" smiled the older, wiser eagle.
"How much can I achieve?" the young eagle continued.
"How much can you believe?" the old eagle challenged.

Frustrated by the banter, the young eagle demanded, "Why don't you answer my questions?"

"I did."

"Yes. But you answered them with questions."

"I answered them the best I could."

"But you're the Master Eagle. You're supposed to know everything. If you can't answer these questions, who can?"

"You." The old wise eagle reassured.

"Me? How?" the young eagle was confused.

"No one can tell you how high to fly or how much to dream. It's different for each eagle.
Only God and you know how far you'll go.
No one on this earth knows your potential or what's in your heart. You alone will answer that.
The only thing that limits you is the edge of your imagination."

The young eagle puzzled by this asked, "What should I do?"

"Look to the horizon, spread your wings, and fly." from the nest. It was the confidence builder many of them needed to fulfill their destiny.

Recipe for a Successful Day

One cup friendly words
Ten cups of understanding
Four teaspoons time and patience
A handful of warm personality
And a good portion of humour.

Weigh the words carefully and add the understanding.
Take your time and don’t forget that patience.
Mix together over the fire with the personality.
Don’t let it cook over.
Hold the temperature at 37º C and always have the humour at reach.
Add the spices of life as fit and serve in individual portions.